所謂敬(jing)畏之心,就是指人(ren)(ren)類在自(zi)(zi)然(ran)規(gui)律和社會規(gui)律面(mian)前所懷有(you)(you)的(de)(de)(de)一種敬(jing)重與畏懼心理(li)。敬(jing)畏是什么?敬(jing)畏是人(ren)(ren)類對(dui)待(dai)事物的(de)(de)(de)一種態度,這里的(de)(de)(de)“敬(jing)”:除(chu)了“彬(bin)彬(bin)有(you)(you)禮”、“恭(gong)恭(gong)敬(jing)敬(jing)”外,還(huan)指做事嚴肅認真(zhen),免(mian)犯錯誤;“畏”:除(chu)了“擔心、憂慮”外,還(huan)形容“戰戰兢兢”,既敬(jing)重又畏懼。敬(jing)畏就是對(dui)一切神(shen)圣事物的(de)(de)(de)態度。懷有(you)(you)這種態度,它能(neng)讓(rang)人(ren)(ren)懂得自(zi)(zi)警與自(zi)(zi)省,它還(huan)有(you)(you)助(zhu)于人(ren)(ren)規(gui)范與約束自(zi)(zi)己的(de)(de)(de)言行(xing)舉止。不(bu)僅如此,它還(huan)具有(you)(you)促進(jin)人(ren)(ren)與人(ren)(ren)、人(ren)(ren)與社會、人(ren)(ren)與自(zi)(zi)然(ran)形成和諧關系的(de)(de)(de)作(zuo)用(yong)。
孔子說(shuo):“君子有(you)(you)(you)三(san)畏(wei)(wei)(wei):畏(wei)(wei)(wei)天(tian)命(ming),畏(wei)(wei)(wei)大人(ren)(ren),畏(wei)(wei)(wei)圣(sheng)人(ren)(ren)之言。”意(yi)思是(shi)(shi)說(shuo),君子有(you)(you)(you)三(san)種敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)(wei):敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)(wei)天(tian)命(ming),敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)(wei)居(ju)于(yu)高位(wei)的(de)人(ren)(ren),敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)(wei)圣(sheng)人(ren)(ren)的(de)言語。有(you)(you)(you)了(le)敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)(wei)心(xin)(xin),我(wo)(wo)們(men)(men)(men)在做(zuo)事(shi)情(qing)的(de)態度(du)上才能有(you)(you)(you)張有(you)(you)(you)弛,敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)(wei)天(tian)命(ming),我(wo)(wo)們(men)(men)(men)才不(bu)會做(zuo)一(yi)(yi)些(xie)傷(shang)天(tian)害理之事(shi),心(xin)(xin)會有(you)(you)(you)一(yi)(yi)份(fen)(fen)信仰。敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)(wei)神靈,我(wo)(wo)們(men)(men)(men)才會祈(qi)求神靈庇佑我(wo)(wo)們(men)(men)(men),心(xin)(xin)會有(you)(you)(you)一(yi)(yi)份(fen)(fen)希(xi)望。凡是(shi)(shi)我(wo)(wo)們(men)(men)(men)敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)(wei)的(de),我(wo)(wo)們(men)(men)(men)才可(ke)能很恭(gong)敬(jing)(jing)的(de)對(dui)待,凡是(shi)(shi)我(wo)(wo)們(men)(men)(men)不(bu)敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)(wei)的(de),我(wo)(wo)們(men)(men)(men)就會隨意(yi)踐踏污蔑。
在社會(hui)上,為(wei)什(shen)么有人進了(le)監獄,是(shi)因為(wei)他(ta)們違反了(le)國家法(fa)律(lv),他(ta)們為(wei)什(shen)么會(hui)違反法(fa)律(lv),是(shi)因為(wei)他(ta)們沒有對法(fa)律(lv)有敬畏之心。無敬畏之心,對法(fa)律(lv)就抱有無所謂之態度,隨意踐踏違反。
在企業(ye)里,為什么(me)有(you)人敢違反制度,頂撞上(shang)級,是因為他(ta)們沒(mei)有(you)對公司的制度以(yi)和領(ling)導(dao)產生敬畏(wei),沒(mei)有(you)敬畏(wei)之心(xin),就(jiu)沒(mei)有(you)服從和管理,職(zhi)場就(jiu)會失去平衡,失去倫理。
為(wei)(wei)什(shen)(shen)么很多人有個人宗教信(xin)仰,是(shi)因(yin)為(wei)(wei)人們敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)神(shen)靈,敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)神(shen)靈才(cai)會尊(zun)照神(shen)靈的(de)(de)意愿做事。在企業中為(wei)(wei)什(shen)(shen)么很多人違(wei)凡(fan)公(gong)司(si)制(zhi)度(du),不(bu)是(shi)他不(bu)知道公(gong)司(si)有這(zhe)制(zhi)度(du),是(shi)因(yin)為(wei)(wei)他沒有對公(gong)司(si)制(zhi)度(du)產生(sheng)敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei),沒有敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)心(xin),何談(tan)遵守(shou)。敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)上(shang)級(ji),你(ni)(ni)(ni)才(cai)能(neng)尊(zun)敬(jing)(jing)上(shang)級(ji)。敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)同(tong)事,你(ni)(ni)(ni)才(cai)注重(zhong)同(tong)事之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)間(jian)的(de)(de)友誼。敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)客戶,你(ni)(ni)(ni)才(cai)能(neng)服務好客戶,敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)制(zhi)度(du),你(ni)(ni)(ni)才(cai)能(neng)遵守(shou)制(zhi)度(du)。敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)工(gong)作,你(ni)(ni)(ni)才(cai)能(neng)珍惜工(gong)作。敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)婚姻,你(ni)(ni)(ni)才(cai)能(neng)擁有幸福。敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)父母,你(ni)(ni)(ni)才(cai)能(neng)盡孝(xiao)。敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)諾言(yan),你(ni)(ni)(ni)才(cai)能(neng)守(shou)信(xin)。凡(fan)是(shi)敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei),人生(sheng)才(cai)有好結(jie)果。現在很多人缺少敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)心(xin),很多事都是(shi)無所謂的(de)(de)態度(du)對待,你(ni)(ni)(ni)對生(sheng)活無所謂,生(sheng)活回報你(ni)(ni)(ni)的(de)(de)也是(shi)無所謂。還有些(xie)人總(zong)覺得自(zi)(zi)己天下(xia)第一,誰也比(bi)不(bu)上(shang)他,總(zong)覺得自(zi)(zi)己了不(bu)起,無視制(zhi)度(du)、信(xin)譽、法律(lv)等,無任何敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)心(xin),上(shang)帝讓(rang)誰滅亡(wang),必先讓(rang)其瘋狂。
我們(men)常說態(tai)度(du)決定一切,態(tai)度(du)一定是建(jian)立(li)在敬畏的基礎上。有了敬畏心,才能有好的態(tai)度(du)。
有(you)憂才(cai)無(wu)(wu)憂,有(you)懼才(cai)無(wu)(wu)懼。心存敬畏(wei),是(shi)(shi)一(yi)種(zhong)崇高(gao)的(de)精神(shen)境(jing)界,是(shi)(shi)一(yi)個人(ren)(ren)更有(you)意義地(di)活著的(de)一(yi)種(zhong)明智選擇,是(shi)(shi)一(yi)個人(ren)(ren)在世間(jian)永遠立(li)于(yu)不敗之(zhi)地(di)、永遠受人(ren)(ren)尊敬的(de)一(yi)件法寶。敬畏(wei)之(zhi)心,是(shi)(shi)未來更高(gao)成(cheng)就的(de)基石,敬畏(wei)萬(wan)物,才(cai)能擁有(you)萬(wan)物。
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