想辦成事，必須懂得這三個送禮原則。
一(yi)、送(song)(song)禮(li)(li)忌不看人(ren)下菜(cai)碟。送(song)(song)禮(li)(li)前要對(dui)收禮(li)(li)人(ren)的身份、愛好(hao)、禁忌等有(you)所了解，這就像有(you)領導(dao)在的飯局上點菜(cai)一(yi)樣，首先就要知道領導(dao)喜歡(huan)吃(chi)什么，不喜歡(huan)吃(chi)什么，不能(neng)接受的又是什么，這是對(dui)領導(dao)保持一(yi)個基本的尊重(zhong)(zhong)，如果是對(dui)方(fang)很討厭的東(dong)西，你要再送(song)(song)，會讓(rang)對(dui)方(fang)認為(wei)你不尊重(zhong)(zhong)他，從(cong)而(er)對(dui)你產生(sheng)距離感(gan)和反感(gan)。
二、送(song)禮(li)忌有(you)第三個人在場。一(yi)般求人辦事送(song)禮(li)的時(shi)候，無論是(shi)公事還(huan)是(shi)私(si)事，都有(you)涉及雙方當事人的一(yi)些身份的問題，所以送(song)禮(li)的時(shi)候最好不要(yao)當著(zhu)別人的面送(song)。
三、送(song)(song)(song)(song)禮(li)(li)(li)要(yao)送(song)(song)(song)(song)關鍵人(ren)物(wu)(wu)。送(song)(song)(song)(song)禮(li)(li)(li)是(shi)(shi)一(yi)門(men)藝術(shu)，要(yao)想讓(rang)自(zi)己的(de)(de)禮(li)(li)(li)物(wu)(wu)起(qi)到(dao)應有(you)的(de)(de)作用(yong)，就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)要(yao)遵循送(song)(song)(song)(song)禮(li)(li)(li)送(song)(song)(song)(song)對(dui)(dui)(dui)人(ren)的(de)(de)原則(ze)，很多(duo)時候送(song)(song)(song)(song)禮(li)(li)(li)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)為了(le)辦(ban)事(shi)(shi)，那自(zi)然(ran)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)要(yao)把(ba)(ba)禮(li)(li)(li)送(song)(song)(song)(song)到(dao)對(dui)(dui)(dui)的(de)(de)人(ren)手上，假如辦(ban)事(shi)(shi)對(dui)(dui)(dui)象不(bu)止一(yi)人(ren)，換句話，需要(yao)多(duo)方(fang)的(de)(de)協調和努力(li)才能(neng)讓(rang)事(shi)(shi)情辦(ban)成，這(zhe)個時候就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)有(you)講究了(le)，有(you)必要(yao)全部人(ren)都送(song)(song)(song)(song)嗎？當然(ran)不(bu)是(shi)(shi)，要(yao)送(song)(song)(song)(song)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)要(yao)送(song)(song)(song)(song)給關鍵人(ren)物(wu)(wu)，不(bu)能(neng)送(song)(song)(song)(song)李(li)四一(yi)點，又送(song)(song)(song)(song)張三一(yi)點，然(ran)后(hou)王五也(ye)(ye)收一(yi)點，這(zhe)樣(yang)禮(li)(li)(li)物(wu)(wu)被分割(ge)零散了(le)，一(yi)來(lai)分量(liang)變輕(qing)了(le)，起(qi)不(bu)到(dao)利益(yi)驅(qu)動的(de)(de)作用(yong)。二來(lai)禮(li)(li)(li)物(wu)(wu)送(song)(song)(song)(song)給對(dui)(dui)(dui)象多(duo)了(le)，難免人(ren)多(duo)嘴雜，容易造成泄(xie)漏(lou)，引起(qi)不(bu)必要(yao)的(de)(de)麻煩。所以(yi)要(yao)辦(ban)成事(shi)(shi)，就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)要(yao)權衡好誰才是(shi)(shi)這(zhe)里(li)面的(de)(de)關鍵人(ren)物(wu)(wu)，誰在(zai)起(qi)主(zhu)導(dao)權，只有(you)把(ba)(ba)禮(li)(li)(li)物(wu)(wu)送(song)(song)(song)(song)到(dao)了(le)點子上，你(ni)的(de)(de)事(shi)(shi)情也(ye)(ye)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)能(neng)迎(ying)刃而解了(le)。在(zai)中國這(zhe)樣(yang)的(de)(de)人(ren)情社(she)會，一(yi)份得體的(de)(de)禮(li)(li)(li)物(wu)(wu)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)是(shi)(shi)一(yi)把(ba)(ba)不(bu)容小(xiao)覷的(de)(de)社(she)交利器(qi)，是(shi)(shi)人(ren)際(ji)關系的(de)(de)潤滑劑，也(ye)(ye)是(shi)(shi)為人(ren)處事(shi)(shi)的(de)(de)一(yi)種智慧，其中也(ye)(ye)是(shi)(shi)有(you)不(bu)少(shao)門(men)道的(de)(de)，要(yao)學會在(zai)對(dui)(dui)(dui)的(de)(de)時機送(song)(song)(song)(song)對(dui)(dui)(dui)的(de)(de)禮(li)(li)(li)物(wu)(wu)，把(ba)(ba)禮(li)(li)(li)物(wu)(wu)送(song)(song)(song)(song)給對(dui)(dui)(dui)的(de)(de)人(ren)，很多(duo)事(shi)(shi)自(zi)然(ran)就(jiu)(jiu)(jiu)能(neng)辦(ban)成。
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