在職場內(nei)記住這兩(liang)(liang)個字最害人(ren),千萬(wan)別信(xin),凡(fan)告訴(su)你(ni)這兩(liang)(liang)個字的(de)人(ren),不(bu)是(shi)(shi)心眼壞的(de),就是(shi)(shi)沒本事的(de),所(suo)以(yi)他們才告訴(su)你(ni)要躺平,還有那(nei)些忽(hu)悠(you)你(ni),別搭理單位領導(dao)(dao)的(de)人(ren),不(bu)要因為(wei)他們的(de)認知低,把你(ni)也(ye)拉下了水,上面這兩(liang)(liang)種人(ren),你(ni)最好離(li)他們遠(yuan)點,人(ren)往(wang)高處走,水往(wang)低處流(liu),躺平就是(shi)(shi)給自己的(de)無能找借(jie)口,還有在單位和(he)領導(dao)(dao)相處沒那(nei)么復雜,很多背后的(de)真(zhen)相和(he)底層邏輯(ji),弄(nong)清楚了,就不(bu)會被別人(ren)忽(hu)悠(you)了。比如(ru)上一(yi)天的(de)班兒,其實也(ye)是(shi)(shi)在給領導(dao)(dao)送(song)一(yi)天的(de)禮,為(wei)什么?因為(wei)給領導(dao)(dao)送(song)禮,分兩(liang)(liang)種,利益(yi)輸(shu)(shu)出和(he)業務輸(shu)(shu)出,所(suo)以(yi)領導(dao)(dao)身邊也(ye)有兩(liang)(liang)種人(ren),業績輸(shu)(shu)出的(de)人(ren)靠干活,利益(yi)輸(shu)(shu)出的(de)人(ren)靠搞關系,可(ke)以(yi)想想自己當哪種人(ren)?
再比(bi)如(ru)在單(dan)位里領(ling)導(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)喜歡誰,就應該想(xiang)辦(ban)法靠(kao)近誰跟他(ta)學習,請他(ta)吃飯,向他(ta)請教。如(ru)果連領(ling)導(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)身邊的(de)(de)人,都(dou)結交(jiao)不(bu)好(hao)的(de)(de)話(hua),還想(xiang)著要結交(jiao)領(ling)導(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao),那(nei)不(bu)就是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)白日做(zuo)夢嗎?如(ru)果跟領(ling)導(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)處(chu)的(de)(de)還算(suan)融洽,領(ling)導(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)讓你(ni)別見外,你(ni)可(ke)別真不(bu)見外,誰是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)老板,誰是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)馬仔(zi),心(xin)里邊時(shi)刻得有(you)個數,特別是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)當你(ni)覺得跟領(ling)導(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)關系(xi)好(hao),想(xiang)讓領(ling)導(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)辦(ban)個事兒的(de)(de)時(shi)候,領(ling)導(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)告訴(su)你(ni)不(bu)用送(song)(song)禮(li),可(ke)別真不(bu)送(song)(song)禮(li),因為(wei)權力(li)就是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)資源,可(ke)資源有(you)限,權力(li)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)在誰的(de)(de)手中,得要有(you)自(zi)知之明。其(qi)實職(zhi)場(chang)上最難的(de)(de)事兒就是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)給領(ling)導(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)送(song)(song)禮(li),送(song)(song)對了皆大歡喜,送(song)(song)錯了就是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)兩敗俱傷。所以(yi)和(he)領(ling)導(dao)(dao)(dao)(dao)打(da)交(jiao)道(dao),能把禮(li)送(song)(song)出去的(de)(de)都(dou)不(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)一般(ban)的(de)(de)人,會(hui)送(song)(song)禮(li)的(de)(de)人都(dou)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)懂得潛規則(ze)的(de)(de),因為(wei)他(ta)們很清(qing)楚,凡(fan)(fan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)能花錢買(mai)到的(de)(de)東西都(dou)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)*的(de)(de),凡(fan)(fan)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)送(song)(song)禮(li)能搞定的(de)(de)事兒,都(dou)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)最簡單(dan)的(de)(de),所以(yi)職(zhi)場(chang)上你(ni)真正需要的(de)(de)不(bu)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)躺平,而(er)是(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)開竅(qiao)。
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